Tuesday, 24 May 2016

The Power Of A Woman And The Inequalities With Them.

She cares, she shares. She suffers, she smiles. She cries, she laughs. She’s a homemaker, she’s a heart maker. A woman has the strength of bearing the pain of child birth, which is equal to bearing the pain of about 20 to 22 fractures. She never complains on being unpaid, for all the work she does for her family, 24/7. A woman has the power to overcome males in all aspects; political, educational, financial, social etc. Women of the present age are much more educated than men, much more sensible and powerful too. She has the strength to stand against the wrong. She’s a doctor ; she saves lives, she’s an architect; she makes and settles peoples dream houses. She’s a journalist; she brings the truth in front of everyone. She’s a teacher; she teaches values. She’s a social activist; she works for the society. She’s Malala Yousufzai, Arfa Karim, Mother Teresa, and Margaret Thatcher. She can do anything, and everything. She can be a lifesaver of anyone, and may turn into that angel anyone wishes for. She can do what men can do, but she can also do what men just can’t do. She adds colors to anyone’s life. She’s a princess of a daddy, a role model for her kids. She is the most patient, she rarely complains for having too many roles, in fact performs them happily. People in different parts of the world bury baby girls alive, due to many reasons. Some does this due to the fear of dowry, as they are not enough privileged to give high dowries to their daughters on their marriages. Some does this because if their first child is a girl, they take it as a matter of shame and bury the baby girls alive. Women face different sort of inequalities in society. They are being questioned by their employers whether they’ll have children after getting married or not. The question arises that why such questions are being raised in front of women? This is due to the reason that mostly women at a child bearing age or women with children have more responsibilities in their personal lives that they could not focus on their career properly. Women face domestic violence by their partners, where some women face it daily and some face it very rare. Women still has to do all the child care and handles the house chores all by themselves. They face different discrepancies and are always treated unequally. In different parts of the worlds, women are being forced to indulge themselves in activities which are ethically and legally banned in some societies. Women are sold in some areas, and in some societies women cannot ensure herself a proper, safe and a long term marriage if her partner is interested in the serial monogamy. They are being entitled with different offensive names if they indulge themselves in some socially unacceptable or rare activity. If women could be replaced so easily, then, why don’t men try to use their expertise in science and technology and make something from which, babies could be born without a women. Not possible right? So respect them. They are made by our god for a purpose. She deserves a lot’ good and rarely bad. She’s a blooming flower, let her bloom.  

4 comments:

  1. This is an amazing article, in which you have expressed your feelings very well. I totally agree with our views, and the way you've highlighted the importance of women in our world, as they continue the generations.
    Women are faced with many injustices and inequalities in many parts of the world. However, I think that in our society, there are not that many injustices with them. Okay, I know that men are favoured over them in jobs and other opportunities, but even then, women are treated with respect and kindness in Pakistan. Maybe that's because of our cultural and religious values, but that is something that we should be proud of. Also, our family system is also better than that in the west, the divorce rates are lower, and men usually marry one woman and remain committed to her their entire life, in most cases. Also, our religion strictly forbids burying a female infant alive, so that too, isn't done here, except if people do it secretly.
    Anyways, I also believe that women have inequalities compared to men. I agree that they should be given more chances and opportunities to show their talents and skills. And it's so true that women are quite ahead of men in education and studies. They should be given the chance to unleash their full potential!

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    1. Well I highly agree with you. But this article was not only based for the women in Pakistan. Its like all around the world. Specifically if we talk about only the Pakistani women, then yes I have similar views like yours.

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    2. But yes, Pakistan does have alot of inequalities, Pakistanis in small towns and villages still face these types of inequalities. We can still see such stuff to a very larger extent in these areas, where they dont care what actually our religion says but what their typical desi rules says. I have done some researches, and then I wrote all this in my article. Also, Iam a sociology student. And even what I have studied regarding all this, is just what I wrote here. Peace xx

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    3. Yes that's very true. The lower class suffers the most, as they're often illiterate and do not realize how wrong these inequalities are.
      Your article is very informative and it shows that you have done a lot of research about it. Keep writing on such issues, as we really need to raise our voices against the injustices and inequalities in the world.
      Do check out my blog as well: http://fatimasarchives.blogspot.com/

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